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Posted by lionel319 @ Sun 31 Jan, 10, 09:19AM under Thoughts
As we always used to heard people saying ..... - control your emotion which in fact, is not totally true at all.
As a fact, we can never control our emotions. After all, we are humans. Humans have emotions. Just take one for example. When someone suddenly approach you, and give a whack on your face without any particular reason, what is your immediate feeling? Some will feel scared, some felt shock, most people like me, will feel angry. These are the emotions that you CAN NOT control, because it just happens, and pop up immediately right out of no where. But, any actions that you choose following those emotions, ARE controllable.
The recent post by Dr. Brett on Moving Beyond Fear And Anxiety really says it all, and I really love how he puts it:-
Don't be afraid of fear and anxiety. Embrace them, contain them, and learn to grow from them. Like this post? Share it! |
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Posted by lionel319 @ Thu 12 Nov, 09, 04:23PM under Thoughts
The Key To Success, And Living A Fulfilling Life
As I've mentioned quite a number of times, a person will perform best if he aligns his strategy according to his own personality. In order to achieve that, I personally find that, it all depends on how well you actually understands yourself. Self understanding is an art easier said than done, and I'm still in the process of learning to understand myself better everyday. But still, I find that the below 2 post really does the job well in helping those that are really interested in delving into this area:-
Notice that how both post strongly stressed on the importance of
Everything is pointing towards the same goal, which is:- to Understand Yourself More. The more you understand yourself, the better you will be at designing your own strategy, your own strategy to life. Calm Down ....... Listen to the small voices within me ................ That's what I've really got to learn right now. What about you? Like this post? Share it! |
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Posted by lionel319 @ Sun 08 Nov, 09, 03:25PM under Thoughts
It's not the strategy that doesn't work. It's the person.
How many times have you heard people complaining that, this strategy doesn't work, I've tried it before, it just doesn't work. But how come the other person whom you got this strategy from, is having this strategy working so well for him? You may ask. Well, I guess it's not the problem of the strategy at all. The problem actually lies on the person that uses that strategy !
In my personal opinion, and from personal experience, I myself have even been thru all the above mentioned stages. A lot of times, we find one particular strategy, and that we see it working sooooo well on a particular person, making him so successful that we think that if we were to use the same strategy, it would work well with us too. Little did we notice that, the strategy just doesn't work on us !
Why is that so? Well, I believe, most of the people, when they see/found a very successful person using a particular strategy, will think that they have found the holy grail to that field, and try to accustom themselves to suit to that strategy. The truth is, it is much more easier to do it the other way round. We should be looking/designing a strategy that suits our character/life style/habit, rather than changing ourselves to suit a particular strategy.
Not only it works better on you, you tend to believe that works for you, because the strategy - aligns with your personal believe
A few of my personal examples/experience:-
Football/soccer
As a whole, finding/designing the right strategy is as important as working hard towards your goal. With the right strategy, you are already half way winning the battle. And how do you find/design a strategy that suits you? Well, it all lies within you. Know yourself better ...... Realize your own strength and weaknesses ...... ..... and design your own winning strategy to success.
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Posted by lionel319 @ Thu 20 Aug, 09, 01:45PM under Thoughts
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